“I don’t know the key to success but the key to failure is trying to please everybody.” –Bill Cosby

I used to be a people pleaser and it was exhausting! I was constantly trying to help solve my friends’ problems and “be there” for others, regardless of own life situation.

I don’t do that anymore and it’s made a huge difference in my life. I help others when I can but not at the sake of my own health and wellbeing. As I’ve stepped into my higher self, I am “less available” for many people in my life. And guess what? The ones that understand are my true friends because they are happy for my personal growth (as I am for theirs).

The same is true for you. Stop trying to please everyone and liberate yourself by preserving your time and energy for your Top Priorities and Money Values. Limit your volunteer work, favors for others, chauffeuring kids etc. so you CAN align yourself with your Top Priorities and Money Values.

When you get stuck in people pleasing- go back to your Top Priorities and Money Values. Ask yourself- does pleasing this person contribute to my Top Priorities or Money Values? If it doesn’t and it’s not hugely important to you, say no.

Many women discover that shifting from people-pleaser to self-supporter is their SINGLE best energy booster. When you are aligned with your Top Priorities and Money Values and say NO to everything else, you have the ENERGY to create what you want.

Your new mindset will ignite your ability to focus on your business and make more money!